Tuesday, June 21, 2011

The No Go List!!

                                                       




-If you been dating your guy for three weeks now and all he wants to do is come over and NEVER offers to take you out, he just wants to hunch ladies…he’s a no go!
-When your guy says his car is in the shop and three months later he’s saying the same shit, nine times out of ten ladies there is NO CAR! You will be the primary chauffer; picking and dropping his ass off everywhere…he’s a no go!
-When your guy says,  “you remind me of a girl I once knew” he’s a no go!
-When your guy refers to women as “bitches” and “hoes” he’s a no go!
-When your guy is ALWAYS on facebook, ladies he’s a no go! You want a man to be able to tell you how he feels to your face, not to the whole world through a damn status!

-If your guy’s car is filled with suitcases and duffle bags ALL THE TIME, he’s not a “frequent traveler”, he’s a house hopper ladies! Your house is one of the many houses he stays at. He has NO PLACE! Therefore he’s a no go!
-When your guy has dumb ass tattoos like money signs, tear drops, or ice cream cones, trust me its not what you want ladies, he’s a no go!
-If your guy gets money on Friday and it’s gone by Wednesday…he’s a broke ass and he doesn’t know how to manage his money, he’s a no go ladies!
-If a man doesn’t want to hold your hand in public he’s a no go!
- When you go out with your guy and you think he’s looking at every girl on the block HE IS LADIES! He’s a no go!







---Lioness in Training

5 comments:

  1. Whitney Crews-EnglishJune 21, 2011 at 9:18 AM

    Girl These Are True Sign Of NO Go's.. Some Of These Are Really Things To Think About & Are So Very True.. Lol.. Some Men Can Be So Messy!!

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  2. I could say a lot, I should say a lot, but I'm not going to say a word. Yall can have this battle...

    Sincerly, MORRISON

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  3. very well said,

    jelane

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  4. I don't disagree...but I can't agree with some of it. I think women get so caught up in superficial values, that they push a good man away.

    Like this: -If your guy’s car is filled with suitcases and duffle bags ALL THE TIME, he’s not a “frequent traveler”, he’s a house hopper ladies! Your house is one of the many houses he stays at. He has NO PLACE! Therefore he’s a no go!<---that's how my car looks because I do travel a lot.

    or this:
    -If a man doesn’t want to hold your hand in public he’s a no go!<---that is extremely petty and elementary. Hell I don't like to hold hands in public either. I am not a fan of PDA. preference. So I'm not sure why that should even be a judging factor.

    And...a man can have money and spend it to impress you in the beginning, and then starts slacking once you've fallen for him. Now THAT is a no go. What if he is a hard working man and is saving up to take you some place wonderful...but you break it off before you give him a chance to do that?

    I'm not being naiive. I've just been very blessed to be surrounded by genuinely good men my entire life and I think that those men often get over looked because women are more worried about finances than his character and as a result they end up single.

    I do agree with the rest. But I just think that when you take price tags off you might find a great guy.

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  5. Point well taken Jelane. But I think it can go both ways. however there are exceptions to every rule! Yes there are some legitimate good men out there. And you are blessed if you have been surrounded by them your whole life! Unfortunately, that's not evryone's story. The most important thing is being open but also be mindful and discerning!

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