He was there for me during the time I needed someone the most. I had just gotten out of a crazy relationship and I wanted someone to take my mind off of it all. He was thoughtful, compassionate and romantic. Just what I needed after all the HELL I had been through. I had only been single for a week, but who cares, he was perfect. He was what God sent to me. It didn’t matter that I had felt the same way about the guy before him. I was hurt and anxious to move on. (Next!) He took me shopping. Had flowers delivered to my job, took me on trips and spoiled me rotten. I wasn’t too concerned about the fact that he moved from job to job, because he always made me feel special. After six months and four jobs, I was a little apprehensive BUT, he came home every night, he wasn’t ALWAYS hanging out with his boys and he answered all my calls. He did get a lot of unknown phone calls, which he didn’t answer in front of me. (but hey, he was just trying to be polite).
A year into the relationship we were still on the honeymoon. His phone ranged while he was in the shower and he told me to answer it (even more confirmation that he was perfect!) I answered it and it was his mother. She was furious! After learning he was in the shower, she very bluntly told me I needed to run like hell. For the next five minutes she proceeded to tell me how he had taken out $40,000 worth of student loans in her name (without her permission), stole her credit card and his landlord was threatening to put him out because he was six months behind on his rent! Just as she was hanging up, he walked into the room, smiling and smelling so good…
WHAT WOULD YOU DO??
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